Poems

Shared Grief

Oh, you, who mourn!

Know that you are not alone.

The grief you sorrowfully bear

Is shared everywhere. 

 
Death that took your love away

Did not stop at your door only,

It swooped here, yon and beyond

Spawning grief hereto unknown.

With every drip of the sands of time

Death claims the ones we love;

Be they young, or old, or sick,

Or be they healthy and in their prime. 

 
Gone! Our love is gone,

Gone from our time of life,

Leaving us empty, forsaken,

And ever forlorn.

“Ashes to ashes,”

Prayers intone

Yet Death is not the end.

Our beloved is reborn.

Dust we are, 

To dust we return.

And our dust is the stuff of life

Quickened by the eternal breath of God himself. 

Oh, may the soul that fled

With its last breath

Find eternity

In God’s abode.

One day, death will come

To us, who now mourn,

And we, too, will be home

In God’s eternal realm. 

 

And the love we shared

In our earthly life

Will live forever

In God’s pure shining light. 

Mary Doan

Tears

Tears!
I know them well …
They come from the place
Heart and soul dwell.

Salty tears.
Bitter tears.
Heartbreak tears.
Soul-burning tears.

I give them sway,
Then wipe them away.
Must go on, else drown
In my tears.

Sorrows!
I’ve had my share.
Dying pets I could not save,
Dear to me, yet taken away.

An unfaithful love
Broke my heart,
Then asked my heart
To forgive and forget.

Sorrows!
My children in pain
From disappointments
I could not fix for them.

Death! Death took
Dad, Mother, Brother, Sister,
Then my first-born, last-born Daughters;
So much of me now achingly missing.

Yet pain and sorrow
Are not mine alone.
They come to all willing
To give love, seek its joys.

Tears!
I know them well,
They live in the loving place
Where heart and soul dwell.

Mary Doan

Happiness

Look around you,

Happiness abounds.

It’s in the babe’s “hello world” cry,

The child’s smile and trusting eyes.

Happiness is in the morning sunrise,

In the rain that falls like

Diamonds from the sky

And turns our Earth clean and green.

Happiness is in the laughter of children

In the innocence of their games.

It’s found in family gatherings

In celebration of special days.

Happiness dances among

Blue skies and billowing clouds;

Its music is heard in gentle waves

That softly kiss  sandy shores.

Happiness

Is in our furry friends

That purr and prance

And nudge our hands.

Happiness

Abounds all around;

We need only to seek

And with determination find.

Yet … some will not see

The happiness within their reach.

Happiness, they believe

Is something they must achieve.

Some seek happiness

In a life of pleasure.

Others look to power

Or wealth beyond compare.

Some seek happiness

In the eyes of others;

Craving the applause

Of cheering crowds.

Some think

Themselves

Unworthy

Of happiness.

Unable to love themselves,

They sentence their

Troubled souls

To a deep and dark hole.

How, you might ask

Do we learn

To love ourselves,

To find happiness?

Sometimes, we must peel

The layers of our life.

Reflect on all,

Both good and bad.

Find the good.

Hold on to it.

Treasure it,

Let it grow.

Find the shame.

Look at its roots

Learn from it.

Then let it go.

Seek God’s help,

Ask for forgiveness,

Step out of the darkness

Into God’s light.

Seek His truth

And do what is right,

For this is key

To our soul’s delight.

When our immortal soul

Is filled with true love,

We receive God’s gift:

Peace for our souls; happiness to our life!

Mary Doan

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